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What we live for...
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Friday, November 15, 2013

Boise, and Moving!

 
  Another blog post from Haley?  I know, I know, I'll try to space them out farther next time: )  Haha, I really do think about blogging, but then life happens and I just don't get to it.  I have been wanting to write about the new house and to get before and after pictures up here for about a month since we finished the renovations.  We have unfortunately had some computer issues which have been tying up the pictures.

  For now I will write about Boise.  The good and the weird things about Boise, and moving to a different place.  It's not that Boise is that weird but that every time you leave a place you've been for a while, where you have gotten used to the culture in that place, it is strange trying to get used to a change no matter where you go.

I guess I will list Pros and Cons, alternating so that I won't seem biased...

Pro: Having Family near.  Need I say more?  Cory's parents and brother are less than 2 miles away and my Sister Angie and her family are about 20minutes away.  We are also a short 5 hour drive from a lot of other family, my parent's, both brothers and their families, and a lot of extended family on both sides.  We have had so much fun with them so far and we are really looking forward to the holidays with family around.  We have never lived near family in our entire marriage so this is a really big PRO!

Con: We miss our Texas family.  We had so many great friends and neighbors in Texas and we were so sad to leave them. 

Pro: We moved into a very welcoming neighborhood.  The houses in our neighborhood were built in 1990 and a lot of the people on our street are original owners.  Having a new family move in doesn't happen everyday and was especially exciting to the younger families that aren't original owners who have young kids.  We had several neighbors at our door bringing goodies and welcoming us the first couple of days that we were here.  After we had been here just a few days they sent around a flier inviting everyone to a block party (just our street) to welcome the new neighbors, which was referring to our family.  They barbequed and everyone hung out and chatted the next Saturday afternoon.  We felt so welcomed!

Con: Idaho is big on Dairy.  As I walked through the schools for the first time I noticed Dairy advertisements everywhere.  I have since found that they push Milk on kids and even serve it in the kindergarten classroom at snack time.  The schools are obviously receiving money from the Idaho Dairymens association or another association affiliated with dairy.  My reason for concern is my allergy child, Audelia.  I'm not looking forward to explaining that my child cannot sit in a classroom where a bunch of kindergarteners are or have been drinking Milk, knowing how easily she could come in contact with it.  I have 2 more years until she goes to school to decide how to address this.

Pro: The weather!  The summer was such a relief.  We went outside without having to be submerged in water.  It made for some fun days of playing outside while our house was being torn apart.  The fall has been nice so far.  It's chilly in the morning when I walk Darion to school but it's been warming up during the day.  Boise is a lot warmer that the rest of Idaho, so we are told we will get snow but that it doesn't stick around long.

Con: The speed limits.  A question on the DL exam was "what is the speed limit on main roads if not otherwise stated?"  The devastating answer is 35MPH.  My best guess is that it's because Boise is so bike friendly which should probably be on the Pro side of this list, but I can't get past the 35MPH enough to consider it a true Pro.  It's painful people, just painful!  The worst part is that people actually drive going that slow.  P.A.I.N.F.U.L.L.

Pro: Our new ward is pretty great.  The Ladies have regular girls nights which helps me get to know them much faster than I would have.  I'm in primary teaching adorable 6 year olds, and Cory teaches the 17 year old Sunday school class. 

Con: New place=new schools, doctors, dentists, optometrists, etc.  This is just part of moving and is one of the things I dreaded.  I'm still working on finding all of our necessary professionals that we will have to see at some point. 

Pro: Wyatt is working with some great Special Education staff.  Moving a special needs child and getting them placed in a new school let alone a new district is quite the task.  We have been so blessed with his education so far but Idaho is not disappointing like we thought it might.  Wyatt was placed in a school that could best facilitate his needs as opposed to just placing him in the nearest school like a lot of districts do.  It means having 3 kids at 3 different schools but it is worth it.

Con: Moving in general is dumb!  We had movers come pack and move us and it was still a difficult, taxing, horrible experience.  I know that is in part because everything that could go wrong did, but I'm grateful that moving is no where in our future as far as we can tell.

Pro: I love my house!  I didn't see it until we had already closed, crazy I know!  But, I was so thrilled with it.  It needed updating but I knew all of that ahead of time.  I knew it had potential and we are so happy with how things have turned out.  We really could stay here forever and never outgrow it.  It's unique, fun, and has a ton of character.

  We are settling in nicely and we feel like we are at home.  I still dream sometimes about our Texas house, in fact I did last night.  When all is said and done we are glad we made the move and are really loving it here.

We got engaged here in Boise.  In fact we got engaged on the bridge in this picture.  Technically, the bridge has been replaced but this bridge stands in place of the old bridge where Cory asked me to be his wife.  We recently took family pictures there.  This was just after Cory had dipped me back as if to drop me in the water.  I thought it was a fun pic.



Monday, April 29, 2013

Us Hunters are on the move

Texas has everything!  And... everything is better in Texas!  Also, think twice before you mess with this great state because the people here have state pride like I've never experienced anywhere else.  We thought we would stay in Texas for a long, long time, we thought maybe even forever.  The Lord has a different plan for us though.  In a few weeks Cory will be starting a new job in Boise Idaho and I will follow with the kids soon after school lets out in June.

It's kind of funny in hind sight to think about how this all came about.  When I think about how we came to move to Texas and end up in this house and area I can see that it was all truly inspired as this experience with moving Boise has been.  Last Summer after my brain surgery my Mom (who badgers me incessantly to move closer to family) had the gaul to leave and go back to CA.  My MIL came soon after and turned around and did the same dang thing, she left and went home.  This was the first time in my life that I ached to be closer to our extended family.  It wasn't that I didn't miss our families before, but until that moment I felt like we had a purpose as a family for being here, but now something about that was ending.  I can't really describe the shift but I felt like it was time to consider moving closer to home, which is really anywhere out West since I'm a CA girl and Cory is a UT boy.  I brought it up to Cory and he threw a wall up right away.  I can't blame him, he has a great job and we really love it here.  I asked him to consider looking at jobs and to keep an open mind.  I was in no rush by any means but wanted to keep a dialogue about it.  He looked into a few jobs but staying with Raytheon wasn't a possibility in any of the areas our family live.  So, like a trooper Cory put his resume out there and waited.  Every couple of months we would talk briefly about it but the conversation usually concluded with Cory insisting that we stay here, and me being thankful that he had a job and not wanting to rock that boat. 

In February Cory started to get excited about a a promotion he was getting and a project he was going to get to take charge of at work.  He was really pumped and told me that leaving Dallas was not an option and that we were staying forever!  Two days after this statement he got a call.  It was the kind of call that in that moment I knew something was happening by the look in Cory's eyes.  He asked me just like he had when the job here came up "Want to move to Dallas?"  But this time it was "Want to move to Boise?"  I didn't even know that he had put in an application for a job in Boise.  He then told me that the project he had been working on that he was supposed to be taking charge of was now (as of that day) moving to Forest, MS where we used to live.  That was a shock since the "never moving away" conversation had occurred only two days before.  He still had a job and was still being promoted, but things at work had suddenly gone from exciting to boring, and Cory doesn't handle being bored well at all. 

The call was from a contract Circuit card Manufacturer called Plexus for a Engineering Supervisor.  So he interviewed, and then interviewed, and interviewed, again.  In total he interviewed 4 times over the phone and through Skype until they finally, after two months, told him they wanted to make him an offer and asked him to come out to Boise to meet in person.  They also brought me out to check out the area.  We were grateful for the trip especially since it was the first time we had ever been away from our kids for more than 18 hours our entire marriage.  They didn't make the offer while we were there but Cory really liked the Plant and everyone he met.  He was super excited and assured me he would never be bored there.  After negotiations and some very heart felt prayers we received an answer to those prayers.  We needed to move to Boise!  Along the way Cory had slowly admitted that he was inspired to apply for this very job and was inspired all along the way with the interviewing process and negotiations. 

We are so excited to get to live near family!!!  We will be living minutes from My Sister Angie (who feels indifferent about this whole situation; )  and her family, as well as Cory's parents and brothers.  Boise is so beautiful!  We got engaged in Boise and when we were first married we planned on moving to Boise after Cory was finished with his Masters.  Then Raytheon put him through school and all our plans changed. 

We just made our final decision a few days ago and have been busily readying our house to sell it.  We put our blood, sweat, and tears into this house and will be sad to leave it.  I get a pit in my stomach every time I think about leaving our friends and ward and the kids schools.  Like I keep telling Alyssa, we may not know why exactly this is the plan or us but Cory and I have received such clear answers and promptings that I don't doubt for a moment that this is what we need to do.

For now we deal with logistic's and pray that this goes as smoothly as possible.  Then hopefully we will be able to enjoy our last days in TX and this new adventure.
I took this Picture at Angie's house when Cory and I visited a few weeks ago.

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Young Women's

 
I got released from my calling as Young Women's president a couple weeks ago after almost 6 years of working with the awesome Young Women and Young Women's leaders in my ward.  I can't even begin to explain how much I love these girls and Women!  I'm sad to go but it is necessary and I'm glad that the girls have a President that can give them 100% which I'm not able to do right now because of some health issues I'm having, but that's another post for later.
 
These are just a few of the Bazillion photos I have of them.  Aren't they the cutest?!








 
These girls helped strengthen my testimony in the Gospel of Jesus Christ constantly.  I'm confident that I benefited more from serving them than they did from having me as a leader.  These girls give me hope for their generation.  Being a teenager is hard enough but I can't imagine dealing with all the things that the youth have to deal with these days, yet these girls do it with grace and seem to be having a blast along the way.
 
I'm getting old but every time I'm with them I feel like a teenager again... they keep me young. 
 
For now I'm finding out what it's like to... be home on Wednesday Nights, not have extra meetings on Sundays, not have basketball/volleyball to coach, dances on Saturdays, Firesides on Sundays, Fundraisers, etc.  It's nice to be able to focus on my health and family but I'm definitely going through withdraws from these ladies.
 
 They have an amazing new president who I know is, and will do a great job!